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My Regrets My Plight

*My regrets, my plights* Everyday, I wake up and take decisions some being to clear my mind of past deeds. But sometimes I feel can I really fulfill purpose considering my environment and things I have experienced in life. I look back to my past and I wish I hadn't done a lot of the things I did and that I did some things better than I did them. This is the plight of some persons especially those that have Defiled someone else or have been Defiled.  You wish you could draw back the hands of time and lived differently as against the records you created in the life of your victim or the terrible incident you experienced being a victim that took your laughter. You do have a solace, the only way is in the ONLY WAY - Christ Jesus. You can't help yourself, as much as speak out is essential in the healing process you need to connect to the one who is not going to condemn you but weigh your intent if you really want forgiveness for your heinous act being a DEFILER and He is ever ready ...
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My Invitation

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I once honored an invitation to minister at an International Youth Conference. I approved without a thought. I had always yearned to be in the limelight. And so, I never desired to know the purpose behind the program. I was merely eager to speak, if not for anything but to showcase my inert ability.  The basis was that my voice needed to be heard. As of the day I got the invite, I never bothered to discern the source of the program. I felt my mates were doing exploits and I strived to explore too. Either for preaching or not, teaching or not, inspiring or not. I only aimed for fame and popularity. My heart had longed for this for a long time. I ignored God's leading.  Each time my eyes flashed through the invitation card, I felt relieved and had a sense of belonging. I was happy, excited, and overwhelmed; all at a time but the worst happened. A few days into the program, I picked my old sermon book and dusted the cover. I forgot so quickly that one cannot pour new ...
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*I am now a changed person*

*I am now a changed person* Upon starting activities for the day I thought about how I can now do things I couldn't do before now and how I can decide not to do certain things at will. I could discern that change can start in an individual unconsciously but the process does not happen till end without the conscious effort of the person experiencing the change. The process of change can either be positive or negative. Everything that God created is for a purpose and all that God allows are for broad or specific reasons. God does not do anything bad especially to His own but He allows some things for His glory and most times it is to discipline and help the person retrace his/her steps back to Him, God the creator. When a change occurs, it is an alteration to a course which if handled properly will result in the intended intention of the one who allowed such a twist or diversion. Defilement is condemnable but you the defiler can change. You can turn a new leaf. You can connect the Go...
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Sex is Sweet

*Sex is Pleasurable* The World Sexual Health Day observed annually September 4 is an initiative of the World Association for Sexual Health (WAS) to increase awareness and promote healthy sexual practices.  Indulging in unsafe sex practices is detrimental to everyone's physical and mental health and this tends to be the route people, mostly the under-aged tread this day due to the unavailability of sufficient free and safe platforms to discuss sex.  Sex and the concept of continuous existence of the man race is like a Siamese Twins but speaking about sex has been unofficially been prohibited across nations, generations, religions and cultures. The theme of 2022 World Sexual Health Day is ‘Let’s Talk Pleasure’, which identifies the role of sexual pleasure in overall sexual health and well-being.  The World Health Organization recognizes that people have sex as part of a healthy life and intimate relationships, and not solely for the purpose of reproduction. If sex is health...
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